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Why Men Cheat and How To Prevent It...

Dear Friend,

I've heard this is so many stories. I've seen it plastered on women's faces, like some sort of billboard of pain. I wiped away my own tears about it in the past.

It's ugly, it's isolating. It's shaming.

And it's everywhere.

That bug.

That "I can't keep it in my pants" bug.

And it seems like it just strikes out of nowhere. Like a flu. As if your man could get sneezed on, and the next thing you know, he has some other tramp's legs around his waist.


And if you've been there, you've thought it yourself.

And it kind of goes like this:

Boy meets girl (you)

Boy falls in love with girl.

Boy and girl settle into a great little relationship and all is well, with hearts and flowers flying out of their butts.

But after a while, life kicks in. Babies come, work comes. Boy gets tired. Girl gets tired. boy gets quiet. Boy works later and seems distracted.

Girl wants to know what's going on. Boy says 'nothing'. Girl starts getting paranoid and looks for some clue.

Boy assures her everything is fine, but now their sex life sucks and even worse the intimacy feels like it's melting away like the Wicked Witch in the Wizard of Oz.

Then one day OUT OF THE BLUE, Boy wants to leave and girl is left, curled up in a ball, crying her eyes out, eating everything that's not nailed down.

The End.

See? That's why I don't write fairy tales.

No, I'm kidding, but you get my point.

Admit it.

It's a HUGE fear for us. To lose the man we love to another. To be left.

To be abandoned, physically, emotionally, both.

Hey, everyone has that fear. Men included. And we lovely ladies are not immune to the infidelity bug, either, it happens.

But for right this second, let's focus on him.

Why DO men cheat?

Well, I went to the source.

And the answer will probably surprise you.

Here's how one man described it out a poll from "Men, Love and Sex":

Douglas, 37, now divorced -

I was married 4 years when I cheated on my wife. I didn't intend to cheat, and it wasn't like she had a model's body or anything. She was just really flirtatious. She gave me lots of attention, told me how much she wanted me, and really made me feel like a god. It's hard to resist that when you go home and the only thing you talk about at home is bills and when I'm planning on cutting the grass.

And he's not the only one.

The main reason that men cheat is because they are looking for something that they aren't getting, or NO LONGER getting at home.

Some people call it boredom, but the underlying reason is the SAME EXACT REASON why most women stray as well:

They are looking for that affection. They are feeling underappreciated and want to recapture that feeling of being attractive to someone, to be sexy.

They want to feel excitement again, feel adventurous, even a little naughty, alive, like they matter.

But more importantly, They're looking for an ego boost. And who better than some new pair of eyes looking at them like they hung the moon, instead of the woman at home who's been in bathroom five seconds after he's dropped a bomb.

And it's not like we don't already have OUR own insecurities already, right?

We have busy lives, we start getting wrinkles, our butts expand, our boobs aren't as fabulous as the Victoria's Secret Models and WE TOO fell like we could use a little romance, THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

It's easy to throw the blame right away and say, it's all his fault, and I'm not going to make any excuses for any PERSON that strays...

But, IT still takes two to tango horizontally, so let's take a look at what YOU can do to better your chances of having a cheat proof man.

First off...

Put yourself in his shoes for a moment.

Get into his mind and imagine what it's like to live his life. Do you know the stresses he's under at work? Imagine what it's like to get up, everyday at crack of dawn, and do the same thing over and over.

Think about the conversations you two have. Imagine what it may sound like from his side. Is it detail heavy?

By that I mean, are you conversations more about stuff that needs to be done, places you guys have to go, money, tasks, etc?

Then imagine what's the first thing you guys talk about when he first gets home and the last thing before you go to bed?

Is any of it romantic? Or sexy? Or flirtatious?


If you say that you guys have that spark still in your communication, then that's great, does your sex life match?

If you think that you spend too much time in the task conversation, don't you think that you BOTH miss that thrill that you both had when you first started to date?

And If you said that you never talk in flirtatious terms, romantic terms, well, how do you think that is nurturing your relationship?

NEXT, ask yourself how your sex life is going? Do you feel like you guys have gotten into a rut?

Do you guys still have regular fore- play on both sides or has it become kind of predictable? Is that fun or does it get a little, oh I hate to say it, BORING?

Now, if YOU are feeling "EHH" about it, how do you think HE'S feeling?

Again, these can be precursors.

Now before you have a nervous breakdown DON'T PANIC.

I'm not trying to scare you, I'm trying to help you help your relationship.

You can easily start now making subtle changes to bring back the passion... AND KEEP IT IN YOUR HOME.

Start by asking yourself, how would YOU want to be treated?

Rass="BodyText">Remember what it was like to first date each other?

The flirting, The kissing, the dry humping in the car? Don't you miss it too?

Then start to bring it back. What you both need is affection. That means more hugs, more kissing, more caresses, more lingering looks.

Remember, part of the affection is in your words. Find ways of letting him know you still find him attractive.

That means calling him at work, not to remind that he needs to home early so you can get to your yoga class, you call to tell him that you're thinking about f**king his brains out and when can he get home.

(If you want some help in the dirty conversation arena, click here for more:)

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Find small ways to connect with him. Goodbye kisses, or even goodbye teases in the morning will have him excited to come home.

How do you tease? Simple... My favorite little tease is to wait til he's brushing his teeth... Then I just get on my knees for a second, take him in my mouth for just a quick second, jump back up and then tell him, "Hurry, home, baby..."

He's always early.

And Try to remember to keep the FUN in your relationship. That may mean making dates... and in that, bring out some new ideas...

I have one friend who makes a date with her husband every week, and they try a new sex position each week, or once played naked twister.

She told me that the positions aren't always "successful" (one almost put her in traction!) But the fact that they try something new CONSTANTLY means that they stay committed to each other and keep some excitement in their love life.... And it keeps her man in her bed.

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There's no reason why your sex life has to so so. Or For you to feel like you're getting the short end of the sex stick.

What are you waiting for, woman?

Get off your butt and get some good lovin!

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And you know I'll be talking to you soon with another INTERESTING topic...

I love my job.

Take care and Happy Sex,

Lora Somoza

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